I firmly believe that values should be instilled at an early age. Try as you might to force it on someone after a quarter of a century, words will just fall on deaf ears. Simply put, there’s no point in hoping that a person who has grown up without values will start acquiring it later on at some point in his life.
So Lourdes, when you become a parent, do remember this and remember it well: teach your child what your parents have taught you. Never be selfish. Put others’ cause above yours. Give to charity. Help the needy, especially those who have been struck by unexpected tragedy. Care for the sick. Be respectful of your elders. Always mind your table manners. Be mindful to offer assistance to the weak. Do not brag. Your talents and skills are gifts from above. When you’ve been invited to a home, always bring a token. Never, and I mean NEVER, go empty-handed. It’s impolite. Do not be reckless with words but do not try to become somebody else. Stay as yourself, and you will never go wrong.
I’ll have more reminders to myself, but these will do for now.
